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DEPRESSION

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Usually I write blog related to law or legal aspect , but yesterday’s news about Sushant Singh Rajput  shattered me completely , a shining star , always smiling person , adorable .sab ko apna karnewala insaan aise pal mein chodkar chala gaya . Not only bollywood industry, political world but also common world is shattered. You never know what a person is dealing, the person may seem happy from outside but you never know what battle he /she is fighting with.

Everyone is like why didn’t he share with anyone, was the problem so big that the person who taught us how to overcome suicidal thoughts through his movie, had no option than giving up on life.
A person with several dreams and with a career on the peak was dealing with depression but never showed to anyone with his expressions.

Let me tell you the person in depression is not able to see or think anything at that time as depression make the whole world in dark. Depression is a state of mind where you don’t understand what to do, different thoughts come in your mind, and it’s just not a mood swing or just sadness. Depression doesn't go away just with an advice, it takes away our thinking capacity, it consumes us it controls us. Many people try and come out of it and win the battle, but many of them try and try but at last they lose the battle  , they don’t want to die they want to overcome , but they lose they are not bad or different they are just the victim of something that is beyond their control.

A piece of advice if anyone comes and talks to you about the things that are killing them please do not laugh and make the things more worse for them. Depression is a state that brings the tsunami of thoughts, person feels helpless as there is no one who will understand them, their situation. The person keeps smiling and laughing a lot but being in crowd of people to the person feels alone, he/she always wants to be alone.
Depression is the state where person is tired of laughing and smiling, the person needs someone who can understand him/her, they don’t want your pity they want your support to understand them.
I will not give much lecture on it everyone is well known with depression, just a request whenever you see someone is sad and feeling unwanted please go and talk to the person in a way that he / she should not feel unwanted , unheard , listen them with patience don’t give any advice , just listen , hug , smile and make them feel wanted , don’t leave them alone , be with them you never know what the pain person is going through everyone is not strong to overcome it.

Not only the person you know , I request even if you don’t know the person then to listen to the person support the person make them realize how wonderful life is , how precious the life is.
At last I will say I m their whenever , wherever and whoever the person , the one reading this if anytime you feel like sharing  something please you can contact me through comment box and social media.

Depression is a disease that kills you slowly slowly , when you feel tired of something especially life go out and talk to someone close to you , just check out with loved ones , by committing suicide you give end to your pain but you give and unwanted and unending pain to your loved one whom you left behind. Please think twice before taking such steps , your life is precious not only for you but also for your loved one , everyone is dealing with some battle but giving up on the life is not the solution ...please please think twice... that's what I can say.

Take Care ..Feel Free to contact and share... 



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