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EXPECTATIONS VS REALITY

  HAPPILY EVER AFTER ......

LOVE , COMMITMENTS, HONESTY , LOYALTY AND COMMUNICATION ARE THE KEY TO GET TWO SOULS CONNECTED TOGETHER LIFETIME.

MARRIAGE IS A SOUL TO SOUL CONNECTION THAT MAKES A UNION OF LIFETIME TOGETHERNESS BETWEEN TWO PEOPLE.

UNFORTUNATELY NOW A DAYS THEIR HAS BEEN INCREASE IN PERCENTAGE OF DIVORCE BETWEEN THE MARRIED COUPLE.

divorce: Marriage and divorce: Women's financial rights - The Economic Times

 A BIT OF COMPROMISE AND ADJUSTMENT KEEPS THE RELATIONSHIP AND STRENGTHENS THE BOND FOR A MARRIED RELATIONSHIP. LACK OF ADJUSTMENT AND COMPROMISE HAS BEEN A GREAT AND THE BIGGEST REASON FOR DIVORCE.

COUPLES TODAY ARE HAVING MORE OF EXPECTATIONS FROM EACH OTHER THAN COMMUNICATION WITH EACH OTHER.

Arranged Marriage and Divorce ...

 

NEITHER THE HUSBAND NOR THE WIFE WANTS TO COMPROMISE. WHEN TO PEOPLE STAY TOGETHER UNDER THE SAME ROOF THEY NEED TO ACCEPT EACH OTHERS FLAWS. FIGHTS   WILL HAPPEN BUT ONE NEEDS TO UNDERSTAND  BEING A HUMAN ITS NATURAL THAT PERSON CANNOT BE PERFECT.

 BOTH THE HUSBAND AND WIFE TODAY ARE EDUCATED AND FINANCIALLY INDEPENDENT WHEREAS NO ONE WANTS TO COMPROMISE.

COMMUNICATION PLAYS A KEY ROLE IN strengthening THE RELATIONSHIP WHICH HAS UNFORTUNATELY BEEN IGNORED  WHEREIN IT CERTAINLY LACKS EMOTIONAL INTIMACY BETWEEN THE COUPLES.

GROUNDS FOR DIVORCE IN INDIA :

India has different divorce laws for different religions. Almost all the religions have their own divorce laws in India which are used among themselves. There are separate laws according to the caste viz. Hindu Marriage Act, Special Marriage Act etc.
 
THERE RE DIFFERENT GROUNDS FOR DIVORCE , MUTUAL CONSENT, CRUELTY, ADULTERY, DESERTION,ANNULMENT, NULLITY.  
 
 DIVORCE HAS BECOME A NEW TREND IN MODERN SOCIETY ,  COUPLE RATHER SITTING TOGETHER AND COMMUNICATING ARE PREFERRING TO SEEK DIVORCE AND LIVE INDEPENDENTLY.


HAPPILY EVER AFTER ...... WAS A BLESSING WHEN MARRIAGES WERE SOLEMNIZED BUT THESE DAYS IT HAS JUST BEEN A PHRASE THAT HAS HARDLY BEEN APPLIED IN REALITY.

 

 INCREASING WORK PRESSURE LESS TIME FOR SELF AND EACH OTHER HAS BEEN ONE OF THE REASON FOR DIVORCE AMONG THE COUPLES. THESE DAYS COUPLES ARE MORE CONCENTRATED ON THEIR CAREER RATHER THAN THE MARRIAGE AND COMMUNICATION.


THEIR HAS BEEN TREMENDOUS INCREASE IN DIVORCE RATES AFTER THE PANDEMIC COVID 19. COUPLES WHO HAVE HARDLY BEEN WITH EACH OTHER FOR 8-10 HOURS AFTER THE WORK TOGETHER, HAD TO SPEND 24*7 TOGETHER WHICH HAD CAUSED ANXIETY AND PRESSURE ON THE COUPLES WHICH HAD INCREASED DIVORCE RATE THESE DAYS.

 COUPLES HAVE LESS PATIENCE AND TOLERANCE LEVEL WITH EACH OTHER WHICH IS ONE OF THE OTHER REASON FOR INCREASE IN DIVORCE RATE IN FAMILY COURTS.

Indian Marriage Trends, Rising Divorce Rates in India, Long-Term Marriage Challenges, Causes of Divorce in Long Marriages

TO BE CONTINUED.....


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