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NIBHANA PADEGAA…..




Why are marriages are considered as a trophy for a woman? Why marriages considered as a happy thing in the life of a women? Why marriages are made compulsion for a woman? Can’t a woman be independent by her.

Today every other woman is financially secured and independent as equally as a man is. Why is a certain age decided for a woman to get married , to start a family ? Why it’s not said that women needs to start dreaming about her career, her financial securities, her own dreams? Is it so that woman is only complete when she gets married , why is it not possible to say that women can also be complete when she is financially independent or secure.

Nibhana Padega we specially a woman had heard this term many times in life. According to the reports divorce rates are really low approximately 1% but the domestic violence rates are high in India , so really it is a topic to talk about soon. Why is a woman asked to sustain a toxic relationship/marriage , Nibhana Padega , why just for sake of society she should lose her self -respect and her identity?

Marriage is relationship with mixture of  love, bonding , care and top of that respect from both the sides  and slice of adjustment and compromise from both sides but unfortunately in India only the woman is asked to adjust , compromise to extreme level even if the husband doesn’t do the same.

In 2018 NCRB report says that housewives are recorded the 2nd largest number of deaths by suicide. Wherein most of these women’s have faced domestic violence and dowry harassment and were forced to live in a toxic relationship without any basic amenities. 2019 NCRB report states that 1 lakh domestic violence complaints are recorded  from women , they are rising day by day even if the domestic violence and dowry harassment is penalised and criminalised in India. Why ?



Why are women forced to get married or stay in the toxic marriages just because marriage brings a safe and secure life …does women’s happiness has no value at all? For a woman coming out of the toxic relationship by a way of divorce is a shameful thing in the society , doesn’t her life is more worthy than her toxic relationship, doesn’t she have a right to live happily with dignity and respect?

Stop assuming that marriages are good and being the weaker gender is a woman’s responsibility to sustain in the society. Whether married or not women has full right to raise her voice , she has full right to choose a partner and the same manner a full right to get legally divorced if she is not happy.



Stop saying that marriages are the safest place for a woman to live in , its not old days or old century where wives were considered as slaves and were asked to live in a toxic relationship because once she is married she has to be their till her death. Instead of promoting marriage as a safest place for the women start appreciating woman a  for her singlehood, her independent , for her financially secured life for her career it should not be a stigma for a woman in society that gives her a reason to blame her. Make society a safe place for a woman to live in. A woman’s status should not depend on marriage but on her freedom and empowerment.

IF MAN HAVE RIGHT TO EARN AND LIVE HAPPILY WITH OR WITHOUT MARRIAGE, SO DO THE WOMEN.

 

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